Some people expect help from others even when they don’t help themselves. No one is going to help you until you can show that you are capable of putting in effort to help yourself. If you are not willing to put forth the effort then you will not be able to move forward and succeed, even if you have assistance.
What is the point in someone giving you advice if you aren’t going to take it? No one is going to do your job for you and you are the only one who can make improvements to your OWN life. Also if you do decide to ask someone for help make sure to pay attention to what they are saying and make sure you know who you are talking to. You do not want to take advice from someone you know nothing about, learn from those who succeed.